Child
abuse can leave you with a confused mass of ordinary human emotions. But this
confusion can feel so painful that your primary defense will be to get away
from it all and to turn your back on values such as love and forgiveness. Thus you
will find yourself in a living hell with recourse to nothing but empty human
solutions of pain, anger, bitterness, and fear.
If through God's grace you have the courage to face your pains, tease them apart, and understand how each one affects your behavior, then there is real hope for healing. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life reacting automatically and blindly to your pains, blaming others and feeling victimized by circumstances that are really of your own making.
Don't blame others if you get frustrated or angry with them, it is only because it is triggering something inside of you. When your emotional pain is triggered by someone else, they are your emotions and your responsibility. When you feel those negative feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of you that is asking to be healed. When you blame others for your pain , you give up your power to change.
All anger is, at its core, a dark and cruel wish for harm to come upon the person who hurt you. Once you acknowledge the core of your anger, and understand it, and stop unconsciously wishing harm on the person who hurt you, you can forgive them. Then you will be healed, and then you can turn to the whole world with true love in your heart.
The greatest need we all have, what we are really searching for, is Love — to be able to receive and give unconditional love. But, many people do not even know what unconditional love is. They never fully experienced true love, the unconditional God-kind of love. However, they know the good feelings of romance and sex. So, lust for romance or sex comes forth and promises to meet their deep, inner need. Remember if you're the kind of person who are not able to receive and give true love, you did not decide to be this way. It got planted in you a long time ago as painful rejection — unloved. But I believe God can heal you because He has healed me.
If you desire to be healed and become whole, you must be in continual fellowship with God so He can work non-stop in your heart and mind. You will be healed in proportion to the time you spend with him. And you must stop putting toxic waste into your mind. This isn’t optional. If you continue to pollute your mind, the only person you will be fooling will be yourself and your life will not improve, and spiritual blindness will be your destiny.
It doesn't matter what the scar and how you fell. Somewhere along the way, there is healing for your life today. There's a river that flows from the fountain of God and it heals everything along the way. I have tasted and known that for every broken heart, there is healing in Jesus' name.
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If through God's grace you have the courage to face your pains, tease them apart, and understand how each one affects your behavior, then there is real hope for healing. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life reacting automatically and blindly to your pains, blaming others and feeling victimized by circumstances that are really of your own making.
Don't blame others if you get frustrated or angry with them, it is only because it is triggering something inside of you. When your emotional pain is triggered by someone else, they are your emotions and your responsibility. When you feel those negative feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of you that is asking to be healed. When you blame others for your pain , you give up your power to change.
All anger is, at its core, a dark and cruel wish for harm to come upon the person who hurt you. Once you acknowledge the core of your anger, and understand it, and stop unconsciously wishing harm on the person who hurt you, you can forgive them. Then you will be healed, and then you can turn to the whole world with true love in your heart.
The greatest need we all have, what we are really searching for, is Love — to be able to receive and give unconditional love. But, many people do not even know what unconditional love is. They never fully experienced true love, the unconditional God-kind of love. However, they know the good feelings of romance and sex. So, lust for romance or sex comes forth and promises to meet their deep, inner need. Remember if you're the kind of person who are not able to receive and give true love, you did not decide to be this way. It got planted in you a long time ago as painful rejection — unloved. But I believe God can heal you because He has healed me.
If you desire to be healed and become whole, you must be in continual fellowship with God so He can work non-stop in your heart and mind. You will be healed in proportion to the time you spend with him. And you must stop putting toxic waste into your mind. This isn’t optional. If you continue to pollute your mind, the only person you will be fooling will be yourself and your life will not improve, and spiritual blindness will be your destiny.
There is no pain in your life that
cannot be healed. God is able to heal and make you whole.The
only way that we can receive healing from our pain and to be placed on our
journey to wholeness, is to give God the entirety of our being.
Taking your pain to God and allowing Him to expose what is inside of you can be uncomfortable even painful. Healing is a painful process. It causes you to dig to the deepest parts of your heart to push everything out. But after you let God heal you, a glorious new life begins.
God will not answer your prayer when there is bitterness in your lives. You must forgive everyone in your life who has done wrong to you. Forgive, let go and let His love heal you.When you forgive, you heal the situation that you judged in the first place to be amiss. You heal the person you forgive, and most especially you heal yourself.
Taking your pain to God and allowing Him to expose what is inside of you can be uncomfortable even painful. Healing is a painful process. It causes you to dig to the deepest parts of your heart to push everything out. But after you let God heal you, a glorious new life begins.
God will not answer your prayer when there is bitterness in your lives. You must forgive everyone in your life who has done wrong to you. Forgive, let go and let His love heal you.When you forgive, you heal the situation that you judged in the first place to be amiss. You heal the person you forgive, and most especially you heal yourself.
It doesn't matter what the scar and how you fell. Somewhere along the way, there is healing for your life today. There's a river that flows from the fountain of God and it heals everything along the way. I have tasted and known that for every broken heart, there is healing in Jesus' name.
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